Astrologers have been choosing wedding dates for what seems like an eternity. The Chinese astrological tradition goes back to the Bronze Age Shang Dynasty. Ancient Roman astrologers, twelfth century Jewish mystics, advisors to Turkish Sultans, and seventeenth century English consultants all selected lucky dates for their clients, family members, and even themselves. And surprisingly enough, the basic rules governing this over 2000-year tradition have remained virtually unchanged throughout the centuries. These time-honored tips can help any bride choose a wedding date on her own. The astrological influences of Mercury retrograde, Venus retrograde, and eclipses can be challenging, but they’re easily avoided. Longer-term astrology influences are part of the fabric of the time.
Don’t be upset if you’ve already chosen a wedding date that has one of these demanding influences. There are ways to work productively with the planetary energies, and awareness of a possible difficulty is always helpful. Longer-term and more committed couples should do better with potentially problematic astrological influences, as they’re already used to working at their relationship and know how to adapt and adjust to one another’s needs.
Mercury Retrograde:
February 2 – March 16, 2013
June 26 – July 19, 2013
October 21 – November 9, 2013
Venus Retrograde:
December 21, 2013 – January 30, 2014
Eclipses:
April 25, 2013 – Lunar
May 10, 2012 – Solar
May 25, 2012 – Lunar
October 18, 2013 – Lunar
November 3, 2013 – Solar
Things are continue to be calmer in the celestial sphere for 2013. While Uranus square Pluto, a long-term influence, presents underlying change in society as a whole, Saturn trine Neptune makes many developments seem natural. Jupiter’s trines to both Saturn and Neptune create a favorable grand trine in the spring and summer, turning the story-book character of many weddings into reality.
Jupiter trine Saturn
Late June 2013 to mid August 2013
Jupiter is expansive and Saturn conservative. This is a definitive combination in astrology as these two planets are so different. When they meet in a flowing trine aspect, it’s easier to balance between an idealistic take on life and a prudent one.
Jupiter trine Neptune
July 2013 to August 2013
Neptune represents the otherworldly and transcendent – romance, imagination and the soul. Jupiter is open, exciting and curious. This combination should make couples more idealistic.
Jupiter opposite Pluto: Mid July through August 2013
Jupiter opposite Pluto can be both strong and profound. While it will only influence weddings in July and August of 2013, it’s an intense, single-minded astrological combination that you may want to soften for best results.
Jupiter square Uranus
August 2013 to mid September 2013
Jupiter square Uranus is a scintillating astrological influence, but potentially disruptive. For your wedding, remember that the two planets are similar in that they both invite the new and seek adventure.
Saturn sextile Pluto: November 2012 through November 2013
Saturn and Pluto will influence all weddings and marriages for about a year, placing a focus on stability and security.
Saturn trine Neptune: Mid April to mid September 2013
Saturn trine Neptune is a flowing astrological aspect that makes the most of both organizational ability and the imagination – a perfect combination for planning a terrific affair!
Uranus Square Pluto: March of 2012 through 2013 and beyond
Uranus Square Pluto is a generational influence, since both planets move slowly and the aspect lasts a long time. They’re located toward the end of our solar system and are known as transcendental planets.